Patience

SABAR. basically, this is one of the thing that we need to face. So, I'm going to post briefly about sabar that I've got from thedeenshow. Hopefully, there are few inputs that u can understand and apply in ur life. Hope all our efforts will gain Allah's blessing. InsyaAllah.

'Sabr' literally means bitter in Arabic. In Quran also state the word 'sabr' about 90 times. So, there is no wonder why Allah keep reminding us to be patience. Patience can carry person to reach their goal.

There are three types of patience :
1. To be patience hinder urself from doing sin
Yes, we are human being! We have nafsu. Nafsu is a thing inside us that if we do not train ourself to control, it eventually control our mind and body. As for most people, we see all the sin as an exciting to do. This is due to the fact that syaitan cover our eyes. They show us the pleasurity to do it and persuade us. That is why we must be PATIENCE! hold ourself from doing the sin. Remember, if u come to a point that u could not hold urself, fast (puasa) and read HIS beautiful Word, Quran. Always istighfar and remember, those u are patience will be rewareded by the Almighty. Trust me, His promise are definite.

2.To be patience in applying the order from Allah
As a creature made by Allah swt, all we can do in return is to do what Allah told us to. This is not for His benefit, but for us! Allah is Amazing! He told us to do something that give benefits for us in this world and hereafter. Patience in this category more like obedient. You pray 5 times a day, cover ur aurat, fast in ramadhan and others. It is not torturing, it is a moment where ur can be closer to Him, to talk to Him. So, never neglect His Word. Do what He told us and do it sincerely. InsyaAllah.

3.To be patience when bad things (musibah) happen
Natural disaster. Beloved ones die. It just few examples that we been through all our life. Sometimes we whine and 'meraung'. But forget that everything that happen is because the Wisdom of the Creator. He know what best for us. Maybe we could not see the sense yet. but in time, insyaAllah u will realised what He already planned for u. Subhanallah.Yes, it may be painful but He knows. If u sad, or lonely or afraid and even happy, talk to Him. Then, u'll find the strength and calamility. There's word that I keep reminding me whenever I feel the world is crushing me ;

"tidak beriman seseorang it selagi kamu belum di uji." 

So, be PATIENCE and GRATEFUL for everything that happens. This is the two things that u need to do to submit urself to Allah. Allah help those who help themselves. InsyaAllah.